DEAR DEIDRE: I CONSIDER myself adventurous and pretty good in bed.
I have a great sexual relationship with my boyfriend of two years except for one thing – I gag so badly when he asks me to give him oral sex.
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I’m 22 and he’s 21. At first it was funny, but it’s getting embarrassing and I really don’t like the feeling that I’m about to be sick.
But on the other hand I don’t want to turn him down all the time.
I want him to be fully satisfied. Is it normal to feel the way I do about this?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Any sex act should be comfortable for both of you – not just the person receiving.
The simple, healthy solution is to get your hands involved or move around so his penis isn’t repeatedly hitting you in a sensitive spot that produces a gag.
Discuss it with your partner, too. The two of you should be having an honest conversation about how oral sex makes you feel.
But be assured that this is a normal reaction. I’m sending you my support pack on Oral Sex Worries.